Baby Mama Drama

this is why women stay losing! 

almost any circumstance that involves raising a child by yourself & as a baby mama is never a win. unless he's a multimillionaire, you just took that got-swept-in-the-finals-couldn't-lead-your-hometown-team-to-victory L. (no Lebron) she can walk away & you'll still be stuck w/stupid....AND I'd be willing to bet (the GDP of a small country) that there will be another just like her that you're upset over next week. not saying that you can't be a baby mama & claim victory; there are a ton of baby mamas that are respectable amazing women that just happen to have piss poor choices in men or awful luck. 

let me dissect this "he hurt me, so I'll hurt him" mindset: it doesn't work. if he cared about hurting you, you wouldn't be in your current predicament. above all else, when you seek to hurt one another you negate the very reason you two still speak: your child. your child isn't leverage & if you deny your child the opportunity to know where half of their genetics, traits & behaviors derive they'll resent YOU. piece of shit people generally do an amazing job at vilifying themselves. if your baby daddy "isn't shit" like most baby mamas like to claim, your child will sense that. something made you sleep with your baby daddy (whether it was hormones, patron or genuinely being in love), so find your commonalities & communicate like adults. I see too many sad children plagued by separation & pettiness & too many parents plagued by stupidity & a lack of common sense.